Love Like Jesus (Because He Loves Us)

I’m gonna start with the most popular verse here. John 3:16! Everybody pretty much knows this one. 

“For God loved the world so much that he gave his only Son, so that EVERYONE who believes in him may not die but have eternal life.” ‭‭John‬ ‭3:16‬ ‭GNT‬‬

Jesus came and died for the WHOLE world. He didn’t die for just a certain race, for the gay/lesbians or just the straight, for the rich or just the poor, for female or male. He died for ALL because He loves EVERYBODY. No matter the skin color, dating preferences, rich or poor, male or female, sinner or Saint. He died for ALL. Who are we to hate others for who they are, if Jesus Himself sat with the sinners AND died for the whole world? Who are we to teach our children to hate somebody because they are slightly different then us? Shame on YOU! Shame on you if you are raising your own children to hate because of differences.

“Dear friends, let us love one another, because love comes from God. Whoever loves is a child of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, for God is love.” ‭‭1 John‬ ‭4:7-8‬ ‭GNT‬‬

God says He is love. The Bible also teaches about love and how it’s supposed to be. This is the problem with the world. It only loves conditionally. It only loves if it gets something out of it. We love those who can help us, strengthen us, and give us things of this world, but the moment we have a falling out, that love becomes hate. That’s conditional love. We are to love even our enemies anyway, witness to those who are different, and make disciples in this world. Unconditionally and without faults. If you aren’t loving, then you aren’t living for Christ. God didn’t make Heaven for only white ppl. He made it for black ppl, mexicans, chinese, ect. You name them, He loves them. Don’t you think we should also? 

“Love is patient and kind; it is not jealous or conceited or proud; love is not ill-mannered or selfish or irritable; love does not keep a record of wrongs; love is not happy with evil, but is happy with the truth. Love never gives up; and its faith, hope, and patience never fail.” ‭‭1 Corinthians‬ ‭13:4-7‬ ‭GNT‬‬

You teaching your kids to hate somebody based off the way they look, act, feel, or even live, is just wrong. It’s called “JUDGING” of others. We are not to judge at all. That’s Gods job only.

“Do not judge others, so that God will not judge you, for God will judge you in the same way you judge others, and he will apply to you the same rules you apply to others.” ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭7:1-2‬ ‭GNT‬‬

So, you see? If you are teaching kids the wrong way, to hate because of their differences, then you’re what’s wrong in this world. If you let somebody else teach your kids that way, when you know it’s wrong, and don’t correct them? YOU are the problem and I pray for you tonight. Spread LOVE as “God is Love”!

“But the Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control. There is no law against such things as these.” ‭‭Galatians‬ ‭5:22-23‬ ‭GNT‬‬


Let’s Be The Change!

My biggest fear is not me losing my dogs. I mean, let’s face it. That will happen one day. I hope it’s not for many, many more years though. It’s them losing me. Me leaving them here (on this horrible earth) without me is just a terrible thought. A thought that brings me to tears. I’m the only one on this earth that shows them so much love and attention. I just can’t stand the thought of how they’d feel if I was no longer in their lives. The confusion! How can people leave behind their animals on roads or sewers and ditches and such? How can they just walk away from these sweet little companions?

Dogs can teach us so much. They can teach us to love unconditionally. They can teach us to love others for their differences and accept them. They can teach us to be loyal to others as we’re supposed too. How to be a true friend. I don’t know about you but my dogs do their best to protect me. They are loyal. They are my best friends. They love EVERYONE. They are always, pretty much, happy. Why can’t we love like they do? Unconditionally, no matter the differences? Be a loyal friend or neighbor to others? Treat people like they treat people? Instead we tear each other apart. We bash each other, or worse, kill each other because of skin color, or differences in religious beliefs, or even bring ppl down because your own life is nothing but misery, ect.. I feel very sad watching all this hate. Let’s love and care for others like dogs do. Let’s be the change we wanna see. Let’s be that one true friend who needs one. Not judge others lives because they are different then us. Time to love others and respect others in the same way YOU YOURSELF wants to be loved and respected. 

“Do to OTHERS (ALL PEOPLE) as YOU would have them do to you.” Luke 6:31

Internet Safety…


Now a days, it’s not safe to let our kids walk the streets alone anymore. Let alone on the internet without watching them. We as adults, are to teach them the dangers of the internet. To protect them from harm.

A couple months back, my niece who is like 12 or 13, was tagged in a pornographic video. Probably because she accepted anybody and everybody who asked her. It scared me! I started thinking, “Who are these people?”, “What if she tells them important info not realizing it and she gets kidnapped?” or “What if she trusted a person who says they are her age but isn’t and meets up with them?” It got my head just spinning. “How can I protect her?” She lives so far from me now.

We need to teach them how dangerous people are. Teach them how people on the internet can’t be trusted and how they may not be who they say they are. Teach them not to share personal info (phone #, address, school name, full name, school mascot even, ect.) with those over the internet. Teach them not to meet up with a friend they met on the internet, unless accompanied by a trusted adult. Stuff like that.

So many parents are buying iPhones, laptops and tablets for their kids and that’s ok as long as you teach them. Watch and monitor what they are doing on the internet at all times. This is a very important matter that YOU as a parent should do. The internet is a very, very dangerous thing to mess with. Something that seems so harmless…ISN’T.

Watch and educate your kids to keep them safe!

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~*Season of Giving*~

Well, it’s now Christmas Eve and I am sitting in my living room, in the dark, memorized by the Christmas tree lights. As I sit here I think of my family and how amazing they are. I think of them opening their gifts and pray that they like them. Which brings me to another thought.

Giving…. This world has lost the true meaning of Christmas. It’s about giving love to those who don’t know what love is. Whichever way you decide to give, do it because you want too. Not because it’s an obligation. Do it from the heart! Show a stranger how Jesus loves by buying them a meal, giving them something they need/want, or simply giving them a kind word or a hug. I, myself, am broke. I can’t help when it comes to money, but I can help somebody carry groceries from their car, walk their dog, or even care for somebody in need. So if you don’t have money to give, then just give some of your time to help somebody in need. A little kindness goes a LONG way.

The true meaning of Christmas is Christ, who was born to save us! He sent his Son Jesus to die for our sins. On His birthday, He had us in mind. He came to show us how to live and to die on that cross for our transgressions and sins. Best Gift Ever! If Jesus can give His life (for us who don’t even deserve it) why can’t we help and give to those we think don’t deserve it also?

It comes back to Jesus, His love, and how much He cared for EVERYBODY! Aren’t we to love and give as He did? Can’t we pay it forward? Trust me! It makes a huge difference in the persons attitude and  makes their day, if you do something nice for somebody else. If you have time, give it! Buy somebody some groceries if you can. Give to the needy and poor. Pray for the Good Lord to provide for you to give in a way and make a difference, but continue this throughout the year. When did we get so greedy and mean? Why can’t we just open our hearts and love by giving our money or time to those in need?

Jesus is the reason for the season!

~*The Love of an Animal: Part 1 “The Introduction!”*~

I have always grown up around animals my whole life. Either we have had cats, dogs, or guinea pigs. Lately we have even had a horse and a rabbit. No matter what kind of animal it is, we loved them whole heartedly. My parents showed us how to love not only by loving us as parents do, but buy teaching us to love these small furry little friends the way we’re supposed to love everyone.


When I was 12, or maybe 13, we got a full blooded 4 month old Dalmatian named Tiffany. Called her Tiffy for short. Man, she was the smarted dog. Yes, as a puppy she got into things she shouldn’t have. One day, she ate a few bags full of soda cans. Not one scratch in her mouth. She would growl at us when we walked out the back door where she’d be. She even played tag with us in the backyard. Yes, I said it, TAG! She was the sweetest dog out there, full of love, but she would protect us if anyone she didn’t know came around us. I remember being in the van at wal-mart and my older sister walking to the car. Tiffy was ready to tear into her because she didn’t know who she was. She lived to be 13 years.

A few days after getting Tiffy, we got my sweet Angel. She was a very scared Chihuahua. I believe whoever had her before us was a male animal abuser, because she didn’t take to well to guys. She loved to play, after she got used to us, of course. She never would bite hard when she did. She was a very smart girl. She was my “girly girl” as I called her. She followed me everywhere. She knew how to get her tail, beg, sit, roll over, and speak when told. Lived 9 1/2 years before I had to put her down for organ failure. I had her for 7 of those years.

We had also gotten a cat. My twin sisters cat. Now, he was cute as can be, but a brat. If you did anything to him, he’d remember and get you back much later when you least expected it. He was so smart and as he got older he was very sweet. He soften up. He was so strong. He not only beat cancer, but he had also lived with congestive heart failure for years. He loved my sister. He made it 16 years and passed in her arms.

Can’t forget sweet Tito boy. He was literally the SWEETEST dog alive. Always full of hugs and kisses. He was unfortunately attacked by the dog in the yard behind us on Easter morning. Worst Easter Ever!! We prayed and cried and sang songs to him while he passed.

Now I’m all grown up and have always had an animal in my adulthood too.


Skittles was my rabbit. She was so sweet as long as you let her run. She hated the cage. She loved giving nose kisses, cuddling, and lots and lots of carrots. 🙂 I miss her!

Baby Grace

My first dog after my Angel was Gracie. I got her when she was 4 weeks old. She chewed on EVERYTHING. I’m not even exaggerating. She wasn’t the brightest. She chased a frog and spit it out, then grabbed him again and spit in out again and again. She got into fights with other dogs, snuck out of our fence when in heat before and was just a huge brat. Now she is grown. Almost 10 years on Feb. 26th. Now, she is so smart. My twin told her one day to get her tail, for chicken and after several attempts, turned around to cook her food and said “You’re not getting any til you get your tail.” My twin sis literally turned around to her chasing her tail and died laughing. 

And this morning Gracie jumped in my bed, with her nasty toy, to play. I took the toy from her and pretended to throw it. (Usually she doesn’t fall for that trick at all) She took off down the hallway looking for it leaving me with some time to hide it. I squeak it to get her to come back. She comes running and looking all over my bed for it. Jc asks, “Where is it?” I responded with “Behind my pillow between mattress and head board.” Gracie is a really, really smart dog because as soon as I had said that, she went straight to the toy and grabbed it. Sometimes, it scares me how smart she really is. lol

We also just recently had a horse. Named him Freckles because he was white with small black dots. He loved our family so much. He loved giving hugs and he would stand there and just be happy as long as you talked to him. He was a smart horse. Reminded us of “Mr. Ed”. He loved APPLES. Poor thing was put down for having cancer all throughout his body. 😦

My first Boston Terrier named Meaty. So happy and full of life. Loved to play and he was a fan of water. Loved the beach and lakes. Loved chewing on things. I found out about 4 years ago he had heart worms and I literally would walk 3.5 miles to wal-mart for a bag of chicken (It was the only thing he’d eat) and 3.5 miles back, by myself, just to make sure he ate. He passed away on March 27th about 3 or 4 years ago. I cried whenever I saw a Boston Terrier after him.

Til I saw…Elvis! I had to have this 4 month old Boston Terrier puppy that had so much love in his heart and energy in his step. He is now 3 years and the best ever. He loves apples, pretty much food in general. Both him and Gracie love it when mommy gives them fruits and veggies. They love carrots, apples, cucumbers, oranges, watermelon, celery, and a few pieces of bananas or peanuts. Gracie loves car rides, while Elvis doesn’t. They love cuddling and their long daily walks to explore. Most of all, they love each other.

Gracie and Elvis
If you don’t have a dog and can’t treat them as a family member, you shouldn’t get one. If you choose to get one, ADOPT! Don’t shop for one. There are so many out there (cats and dogs) that need homes. They all need love! 🙂

~*Fearfully and Wonderfully Made*~

John 15:13~ “The greatest love you can have for your friends is to give your life for them.”

Finding friendship is hard. Real friends, you know the true kind. See, I have nobody to hang with and I haven’t had anyone to hang with in years. I truly feel so alone. I am a great friend. I’ll stand up for you and be there when you need me, no matter what. Only thing I ask is you do the same. Every time I get a good friend they either move away or they end up stabbing me in the back. Hurting me tremendously. 😦 I close my heart off to ppl. Shutting them out because of the hurt. Then I find somebody else that seems like a true friend. You know, the kind that only comes from God? Then I get hurt, closing my heart off, once again. So I never have anybody to hang with because of it. I just want a true friend who shows me respect and loyalty in the friendship and I want to hang out a lot more than once or twice. :-/ I want a friendship that can only come from God. A God given “Best Friend”.

When I make plans, I have nobody to invite because when I invite all my friends (that I think I have) to do things with me, nobody even shows up. My birthday, I wanted to throw a party. Nobody came, but family. I threw a Memorial Day party and nobody came, once again, but family. I make plans and invite in advance and nobody still comes.

I go on Facebook and see everybody posting pics and statuses about having girls day/night out or going and doing this/that. I don’t have that kind of friendship, to hang with them. I don’t have a best friend to call my sister. Nobody sticks with me long enough. Is there something wrong with me? All my friends only communicate through Facebook and even then we barely talk. I don’t hang or talk to any of them outside of Facebook either, except my family members (Including the in-laws). I have been praying for years and years for a small handful of some girl friends and nothing yet. Some I could call my sisters. I decided to pray and read my bible. Let God heal my brokenness. Honestly, is there something wrong with me? Maybe that’s why nobody wants to hang with me! I feel like I’ll never have that friend I have been praying for. I know I have my hubby, but every girl needs a small handful of girl friends to have some girl time. :-/

God has been reminding me that I am perfect just the way He made me. That nothing is wrong with me. Psalms 139:14~ “You are fearfully and wonderfully made.” So why do I still feel so alone in this world? Why do I still feel like there is something wrong with me?

“Prayer Is The Door, Faith Is The Key”

Hebrews‬ ‭11:1‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen.”

Last week, God was teaching me about what ‘faith’ really is and how it works. I have been reading my bible and praying and listening to a pastors podcast. Pastor Rick Warren goes on to explain that “Whatever you want and pray for, thank Him as if you have already received it.” I was blown away because I have heard this years ago by another man. Then he says “When you pray don’t keep asking for it every time. One time is enough. He knows what you want and/or need before you do. When you pray and thank Him for it in advance, its showing Him you believe He’s gonna keep His promise to provide for you. When you ask Him, it shows Him you have doubts.” Again I was just blown away. I just love how God teaches us.

In Daniel 3 it shows what God can do if you show Him faith. He rescued Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego from the fiery furnace because they CHOSE to have faith in God to protect them.

Daniel 3:21-25~ 

So they tied them up, fully dressed—shirts, robes, caps, and all—and threw them into the blazing furnace. Now because the king had given strict orders for the furnace to be made extremely hot, the flames burned up the guards who took the men to the furnace. Then Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego, still tied up, fell into the heart of the blazing fire. Suddenly Nebuchadnezzar leaped to his feet in amazement. He asked his officials, “Didn’t we tie up three men and throw them into the blazing furnace?” They answered, “Yes, we did, Your Majesty.” “Then why do I see four men walking around in the fire?” he asked. “They are not tied up, and they show no sign of being hurt—and the fourth one looks like an angel.” 

So, whatever it is that you need/want at this very moment, pray and thank Him for giving it to you as if you have already received it. God will provide!

‭‭Mark‬ ‭11:24‬ ‭ESV

“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.”‬‬

“Loving As He Loves” Is Hard To Do…

Luke 6:27&28- “But I tell you who hear me: Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who mistreat you.”

How can I LOVE those who mistreat me, abuse me, or act like they are better than me? How can I show them Gods love? The kind thats unconditional? How can I love a world that is so full of hatred and evil?

Matthew 22:39- The second most important commandment is like it: ‘Love thy neighbor as you love yourself.’

 This is probably the HARDEST commandment God has ever given us.

I wanna be like Jesus. I strive to be like Jesus. I live to be like Jesus. I want to forgive as He forgives. I want to love as He loves. I want to give as He gives. When people talk bad about me, hurting me in any way, and just being plain ugly to me over and over after I am so loving and kind to them, I have to admit, it makes me so angry. I begin to hate this person and then I get angrier at myself because we are called to LOVE each other and I failed to do so. He is teaching me to ‘love’ others, no matter what. Kill evil with kindness, no matter what. Very hard lesson so far. Please keep me in prayer for my heart to be changed. To show the fruits of the Spirit to others so they can meet Jesus through me.

Galatians 5:22&23- But the Spirit produces love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, humility, and self-control. There is no law against such things as these.

I am so happy to know, that no matter what, Gods love in never ending, despite our failures and sins.